"I hate it when i think i can help but i cannot!!!
"Woke up in the middle of the night and i have this feeling when i saw someone's posts in Facebook. Then i thought, i actually wanted to help but i could not do anything. Well, or maybe it was me who thought i wanted to help but others do not want to be helped?
"Help those who want to be helped" i always recall this sentence once in a while. Maybe i am positive thinking, maybe i always know how to comfort myself? No, i remember i told my cousin who loves reading a lot that she should be reading more of those self-improvement books instead of those famous novel. It could make u think narrowly, and unable to break through the bottle-neck. One of the example is Dale Caniergy's books>> How to win friends and influence people? or How to enjoy life, etc... it really helps..
Whenever there is a problem, we must know how to source the root. Why did this happen? Try thinking it harder about what you think is just gonna send you to DEATH!!! You should stand outside of your mind and then think from the several other point of views. This will definitely make you understand the whole situation and realise what have you done wrongly, or what made you misunderstood them!!??
Especially when i hear how some children or adults complain and hate their parents, i know they must have been some miscommunication.
I am aware about this because i am a mother now. I am not that kind of parent who would just give birth and do not care what happen to the kids! I must make sure that i have my foundation, my career, my own house, and most importantly my time and my "ever-ready mentality" for my baby. I do not want to be selfish like some people who cares so much about making money and have NO TIME for their children, children who cannot get parental love will act very weirdly, and it will affect their own mindset and how they treat their own children.
Talking about TIME, you must allocate quality time with the children.. This cannot be visualized when there is even problem which supporting them!! $$$ might not be everything but in this realistic world>> No Money-No Talk!! So, to those selfish parents out there, money cannot buy back the love for your children... Spend more time with your children, try to talk to them, understand them, love them and make them happy!!
Think or recall>>"Why did you give birth to them???"
But if there are people who said, "it was an accident!!" I would say, then you are not ready! If you're not ready, then why so selfish?? U should not let her or him come to this world! Hey Parents out there!!! Be responsible! it is not a matter of to give birth or not! It is not a matter of can we afford to grow him up or not! It is a matter "Getting ready to be a parent!!"
When you are not ready.. it is unfair to the children!! "Why did you make this decision for us?? " children would say, " I don't want to come to this world i i have a choice!!!"
Please.... do not be selfish....
There are no problems which cannot be solved on earth!!
Only that person who thinks that the problem existed do not understand the whole picture!!
As parents we must think rationally and love your children!!
Now you cannot said you are not ready, you must
try show your love to your children....
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